Waylon
Graduation CHS 2008
Senior Class
2008
Project Graduation
A Tradition
A Fleeting moment in
Time
Best Friends...
best friends...
relaxin.
Justin and Waylon
The NW Team
Always so proud of our son.
2008
I started this blog awhile back.
And I couldn't finish it.
It's been the hardest blog to do.
So,
May 7th, 2013
is two days away..
I thought I'd try again.
Maybe some things,
you neither start
nor finish.
If I could figure out how to open this blog up,
to all of you,
I would.
So you could help me .
He was so excited about college.
Waylon's Wreath
2013
"His spot."
The Funeral
May 11th, 2010
May 11th, 2010
The day finally came...
I wasn't ready,
I mean...
Of all the days I planned to
have for my children..
this was not that day...
I remember walking in to a packed gym..
so many had come to say
"goodbye".
Family and Friends
so patiently waiting for the
start of the service.
It was quiet..
so quiet.
Through out the service
I never heard a child cry out,
a cough made,
a shuffle of a shoe...
We walked in,
to take our seats.
To have our last hours
with Waylon.
They left his casket open,
through the service.
Rex and Wyatt started the service with
"The Dance".
I still don't know how they managed to sing...
but they did...
and it was beautiful.
The funeral services were held in the
gym of
California High School.
The same gym that just 2 years earlier,
Waylon had graduated from...
the gym he gave his speech in as class president...
of the class of 2008..
A big accomplishment,
A big accomplishment,
The same gym he performed band and drum line routines in during the countless games and pep rallies,
the same gym that he supported his friends in,
through the many games and events that a high school student
partakes of..
Yes, the same gym and high school that meant so much to him
for so many different reasons...
the school that helped shape him into the person he was...
and now...
here he was.
One last time,
in the same gym.
I tried to take notes,
as Bother Greg gave the service.
I know he commented on the number of people who
came to see you the day before.
"What a tribute it was to you."
He read your obituary.
at 3:10 p.m.
I have noted that your Dad and brother sang
"The Dance."
We played
"Still small Voice"
and
"Praise you in this Storm".
Brother Greg read
Thoughts from family and friends..
I remember people laughed,
and
cried.
He talked about your Faith.
and how
your faith Waylon,
sustains you through eternal
life.
Greg talked about Waylon,
what he loved and stood for.
That he
loved to laugh, and be around people,
he loved to be outdoors,
and he loved to run.
And what I know to be so true,
is how you put others first.
You had a heart of gold.
Greg talked about the movie,
"Chariots of Fire".
Which I have watched since the funeral.
Greg made a reference, from the movie,
about Eric Little, an Olympian
runner, who stated he could feel God's pleasure when he runs.
I believe Waylon could feel that same pleasure.
Greg also talked about the beginning and end to every race.
Some are very short as we know, while others long, like a marathon.
I am going to type from Greg's notes here,
because he really helped me to understand.
"We understand when someone's life ends after the marathon of many years. But it is difficult to comprehend the "Sprint".
We expected to be like those great clouds of witnesses that Hebrews spoke of; watching Waylon run his race of life for many years. But when the marathon we had expected, turned into a "Sprint"....a life much shorter than any imagined....well, let me share with you, there are some questions that remain unanswered, sometimes for years, and sometimes until we go home to meet the Lord after our race is complete."
As Hebrews 12 says, there is a "race marked out for us". Like the runner, each of us in life must know that our race has a beginning and it will have an end.
Waylon knew this.....
he just did not know that his life would be a
"Sprint",
rather than a marathon.
Hebrews
"Let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us."
2ns Timothy
"I have finished the race, I have kept the faith."
Greg also made reference to Billy Graham's newphew who had died at an early age.
And like we have with Waylon.......they struggled with the reasoning and logic behind such a death, in a young man's life that only showed promise and potential.
It was Ruth Graham that came up with the best answer for them,
"Sandy's life was not cut short. Sandy's life was completed."
Rex at some point whispered this to me,
"Waylon's life was completed."
4:20 P.M.
in my notes I have written,
"They opened the doors to carry you out,
as soon as you neared the doors,
I felt you blow by."
4:50 P.M.
"You're headed down the road,
leading the way."
Wyatt at some point made this statement.
It's is the last statement on that page,
"When he went away to college,
I missed him."
I tried to take notes,
as Bother Greg gave the service.
I know he commented on the number of people who
came to see you the day before.
"What a tribute it was to you."
He read your obituary.
at 3:10 p.m.
I have noted that your Dad and brother sang
"The Dance."
We played
"Still small Voice"
and
"Praise you in this Storm".
Brother Greg read
Thoughts from family and friends..
I remember people laughed,
and
cried.
He talked about your Faith.
and how
your faith Waylon,
sustains you through eternal
life.
Greg talked about Waylon,
what he loved and stood for.
That he
loved to laugh, and be around people,
he loved to be outdoors,
and he loved to run.
And what I know to be so true,
is how you put others first.
You had a heart of gold.
Greg talked about the movie,
"Chariots of Fire".
Which I have watched since the funeral.
Greg made a reference, from the movie,
about Eric Little, an Olympian
runner, who stated he could feel God's pleasure when he runs.
I believe Waylon could feel that same pleasure.
Greg also talked about the beginning and end to every race.
Some are very short as we know, while others long, like a marathon.
I am going to type from Greg's notes here,
because he really helped me to understand.
"We understand when someone's life ends after the marathon of many years. But it is difficult to comprehend the "Sprint".
We expected to be like those great clouds of witnesses that Hebrews spoke of; watching Waylon run his race of life for many years. But when the marathon we had expected, turned into a "Sprint"....a life much shorter than any imagined....well, let me share with you, there are some questions that remain unanswered, sometimes for years, and sometimes until we go home to meet the Lord after our race is complete."
As Hebrews 12 says, there is a "race marked out for us". Like the runner, each of us in life must know that our race has a beginning and it will have an end.
Waylon knew this.....
he just did not know that his life would be a
"Sprint",
rather than a marathon.
Hebrews
"Let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us."
2ns Timothy
"I have finished the race, I have kept the faith."
Greg also made reference to Billy Graham's newphew who had died at an early age.
And like we have with Waylon.......they struggled with the reasoning and logic behind such a death, in a young man's life that only showed promise and potential.
It was Ruth Graham that came up with the best answer for them,
"Sandy's life was not cut short. Sandy's life was completed."
Rex at some point whispered this to me,
"Waylon's life was completed."
4:20 P.M.
in my notes I have written,
"They opened the doors to carry you out,
as soon as you neared the doors,
I felt you blow by."
4:50 P.M.
"You're headed down the road,
leading the way."
Wyatt at some point made this statement.
It's is the last statement on that page,
"When he went away to college,
I missed him."
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